Know that it took me more than 5 years to figure out Korea's women (and I still have loads to learn!
) In any case benefit from what I've discovered and make your dating life with women from the Land of the Morning Calm easier.
) She'll date you regardless (more on why below.) Have your heart set on being with her?
Personally I think this is stupid but I didn't make up the society or their points of view. That being said you'll have a hard time without it being your fault because of their strict society. In fact you might be pleasantly surprised to discover that Korea is changing to becoming more open-minded.
They're afraid that you'll "take their women" (as if women belong to someone.) In reality they're jealous and insecure. They're jealous because their society holds them back from dating Korean girls the way they want.
Expats on the other hand don't have to deal with their society as much.
Chances are you've hit a wall and are not sure what the heck is going on. There are things that most expats don't know at first.
Once you're aware of what's going on behind the scenes you'll have more peace of mind.