So we married within six months, perhaps because of pressure from the family to grow up and be adults!
Thankfully, the question of my virginity was never discussed even though I was ordered to wear a red virgin ribbon around my wedding dress.
There was also the tale of a girls dowry would depend on how much she weighed, hence the encouragement by the family to put on weight.
The traditions and wedding styles largely depends on which area of Turkey the couple originates.
Thankfully, my experience of the Turkish courting ritual was a lot easier maybe because I was a western girl.
The marriage was not allowed because the man continued working in tourism, and this was not considered a stable income.
I was 25 years old, single, very naïve and had not considered researching cultural differences that I was likely to encounter.
The first signs of a difference in courting rituals between my home country of the UK and Turkey were evident on my first holiday.
Gardens were filled with goats and chickens running around bundles of chopped firewood.
The local teahouses were filled with old men assessing the foreigners who had so abruptly arrived in their village.